[Assam] IE: Nitin's case? Sharma - Yadav team in jail finally -for life?

Thu Dec 21 16:03:26 PST 2006

Ram-da and Alpana-ji,

  I am sad that I made you sad.

  Regards.

  Umesh

"Alpana B. Sarangapani" <absarangapani at hotmail.com> wrote:
      Thanks C'da for covering for us earlier. 
  I feel it would be an insult to Nitin to open a thread like this, even though we have taken a brave front, like writing an eulogy, showing up at work after two weeks etc., etc. We do it because Nitin wants us to do it - never bend yourself unnecessarily in front of others.
  Then again, FOR US it is NOT just another thing that happens in life that is healed when time passes by - we have to get another life to get healed. 
  And BTW, that 'one year mourning period' rule that the society puts, is pure BS. I decide when my mourning period is over.  
  Umesh-ji, I was thinking of letting you know about the new development, but you never asked us. I know you have all the good intentions, but please, not like this.

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  From: "Ram Sarangapani" <assamrs at gmail.com>
To: "Chan Mahanta" <cmahanta at charter.net>
CC: umesh.sh05 at post.harvard.edu, assam at assamnet.org
Subject: Re: [Assam] IE: Nitin's case? Sharma - Yadav team in jail finally -for life?
Date: Thu, 21 Dec 2006 16:47:28 -0600

    Thank you C'da for really understanding our feelings.

  We understand Umesh means well, but Umesh, both of us still feel deeply hurt, whenever Nitin's name crops up, it brings back lots of memories. In essence, it is a sensitive subject for us. And we certainly, do not expect the same level of sensitivity from everyone around. We hope you understand our feelings. 

  Over the past year or so, we have tried to show a brave front, participated in Assamnet discussions etc, visited friends, but that should in no way be construed to mean that, at least for us, Nitin's case can be treated like some other case (far removed from us), and Nitin is 'past history' for both of us and we can discuss him in a detatched way. I don't think we will ever reach that sense of detatchment and nor do we want to. Nitin is a part of us.  

  I did not follow this thread carefully, but fail to see the connection. And since you wanted to know, Hardeep S. Grewal of Houston has been indicted for Nitin's murder by a Harris County Grand Jury, and is awaiting trial. That is basically as much as we know about the case. 

  Also, whether, Grewal is convicted or not, sent to prison or not, we, as parents, have already lost.

  Ram & Alpana

  On 12/21/06, Chan Mahanta <cmahanta at charter.net> wrote:       Umesh:

  You ought to have exercised some discretion in bringing Nitin's case into this discussion.

  But then again, why am I surprised!

  At 7:06 PM +0000 12/21/06, umesh sharma wrote:
  Natwar Singh did NOT kill anyone -- Sharma - Yadam team did -- two people murdered.     I wonder how the case of Nitin Sarangpani's death in Houston, Texas allegedly by an Indian Sikh immigrant whose daughter was his friend and he was at her house to drop her off at night -after attending his birthday party. Did his being a Marine Reserve help in police investigation? Did the girl's father land in jail? http://www.assam.org/newsletter/september2005.pdf     Umesh

mc mahant <mikemahant at hotmail.com> wrote:
  None of these deserve being fed a lifetime in Jail.  Idiotic Brit Penal Code-also copied by US--where big fish like" Kanwar" Natwar Singh are branded Success Stories and small fry locked uup for life -at what cost!
  mm

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    From:  umesh sharma <jaipurschool at yahoo.com>
Reply-To:   umesh.sh05 at post.harvard.edu
To:  assam at assamnet.org
Subject:  [Assam] IE: Sharma - Yadav team in jail finally - for life? 
Date:  Wed, 20 Dec 2006 19:53:26 +0000 (GMT)

  http://www.expressindia.com/fullstory.php?newsid=78439           This Sharma grandson of former Indian President -Shankar Dayal Sharma (I know his nephew) seems to be trigger happy as do his friends. Member of Parliament DP Yadav's son who goes to jail with Sharma --is one of the two brothers allegedly involved in the murder of Nitish Katara who was dating their sister and had the guts too dance with her at her birthday party(as per news reprots).      Here is Yadav's main role http://www.expressindia.com/fullstory.php?newsid=78473            Umesh           PS: It seems to be true -- birds of  a feather flock together  

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