[Assam] IE: Nitin's case? Sharma - Yadav team in jail finally -for life?

Thu Dec 21 19:46:14 PST 2006

Rajen:

>  >Let the family heal in their own way with time. Let us not disturb 
>their healing process.

*** You are right Rajen. It should not take any extraordinary 
sensitivity to respect Ram and Alpana's privacy,their mourning and 
their struggles with healing.

Netters do respect that. And no-one has found it necessary, 
heretofore, to embroil the Sarngapanis' tragedy, to make political 
points. I wished it had remained so.

c

At 9:16 PM -0600 12/21/06, Rajen & Ajanta Barua wrote:
>Umesh:
>I understand your position. But is 'Justice' the ultimate thing? Can 
>'justice' heal? Can justice bring back the dead?. I think, it is the 
>wstern world, who talks too much about justice. Eye for eye. Indian 
>world, Indian culture look at things differently. Sometimes it is 
>better not to say things at all. Unspoken words mean a lot. Let us 
>not say anything further on this subject in honour of Nitin. Let the 
>family heal in their own way with time. Let us not disturb their 
>healing process.
>Rajenda
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>From: <mailto:jaipurschool at yahoo.com>umesh sharma
>To: <mailto:assamrs at gmail.com>Ram Sarangapani ; 
><mailto:cmahanta at charter.net>Chan Mahanta
>Cc: <mailto:assam at assamnet.org>assam at assamnet.org
>Sent: Thursday, December 21, 2006 5:19 PM
>Subject: Re: [Assam] IE: Nitin's case? Sharma - Yadav team in jail 
>finally -for life?
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>Ram-da,
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>I realize your feelings and the pain you feel. But to get justice 
>there has to be a concerted effort so I asked. One cannot sit and 
>wait for things to happen. Community members have to support.
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>I hope he (Grewal)  is punished soon.
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>Umesh
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>Ram Sarangapani <<mailto:assamrs at gmail.com>assamrs at gmail.com> wrote:
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>Thank you C'da for really understanding our feelings.
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>We understand Umesh means well, but Umesh, both of us still feel 
>deeply hurt, whenever Nitin's name crops up, it brings back lots of 
>memories. In essence, it is a sensitive subject for us. And we 
>certainly, do not expect the same level of sensitivity from everyone 
>around. We hope you understand our feelings.
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>Over the past year or so, we have tried to show a brave front, 
>participated in Assamnet discussions etc, visited friends, but that 
>should in no way be construed to mean that, at least for us, Nitin's 
>case can be treated like some other case (far removed from us), and 
>Nitin is 'past history' for both of us and we can discuss him in a 
>detatched way. I don't think we will ever reach that sense of 
>detatchment and nor do we want to. Nitin is a part of us.
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>I did not follow this thread carefully, but fail to see the 
>connection. And since you wanted to know, Hardeep S. Grewal of 
>Houston has been indicted for Nitin's murder by a Harris County 
>Grand Jury, and is awaiting trial. That is basically as much as we 
>know about the case.
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>Also, whether, Grewal is convicted or not, sent to prison or not, 
>we, as parents, have already lost.
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>Ram & Alpana
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>On 12/21/06, Chan Mahanta 
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>You ought to have exercised some discretion in bringing Nitin's case 
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>But then again, why am I surprised!
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>At 7:06 PM +0000 12/21/06, umesh sharma wrote:
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>>Natwar Singh did NOT kill anyone -- Sharma - Yadam team did -- two 
>>people murdered.
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>I wonder how the case of Nitin Sarangpani's death in Houston, Texas 
>allegedly by an Indian Sikh immigrant whose daughter was his friend 
>and he was at her house to drop her off at night -after attending 
>his birthday party. Did his being a Marine Reserve help in police 
>investigation? Did the girl's father land in jail? 
><http://www.assam.org/newsletter/september2005.pdf>http://www.assam.org/newsletter/september2005.pdf
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>Umesh
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>mc mahant <<mailto:mikemahant at hotmail.com>mikemahant at hotmail.com> wrote:
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>None of these deserve being fed a lifetime in Jail.
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>Idiotic Brit Penal Code-also copied by US--where big fish like" 
>Kanwar" Natwar Singh are branded Success Stories and small fry 
>locked up for life -at what cost!
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>From:  umesh sharma <<mailto:jaipurschool at yahoo.com>jaipurschool at yahoo.com>
>Reply-To:  <mailto:umesh.sh05 at post.harvard.edu> umesh.sh05 at post.harvard.edu
>To:  <mailto:assam at assamnet.org>assam at assamnet.org
>Subject:  [Assam] IE: Sharma - Yadav team in jail finally - for life?
>Date:  Wed, 20 Dec 2006 19:53:26 +0000 (GMT)
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><http://www.expressindia.com/fullstory.php?newsid=78439>http://www.expressindia.com/fullstory.php?newsid=78439
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>This Sharma grandson of former Indian President -Shankar Dayal 
>Sharma (I know his nephew) seems to be trigger happy as do his 
>friends. Member of Parliament DP Yadav's son who goes to jail with 
>Sharma --is one of the two brothers allegedly involved in the murder 
>of Nitish Katara who was dating their sister and had the guts to 
>dance with her at her birthday party(as per news reprots).
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>Here is Yadav's main role 
><http://www.expressindia.com/fullstory.php?newsid=78473>http://www.expressindia.com/fullstory.php?newsid=78473
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>PS: It seems to be true -- birds of  a feather flock together
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