[Assam] Unsubscribed!!!stop the influx

Sun Oct 15 11:59:28 PDT 2006

Hello Momy:

>please stop accusing and abusing members of this 
>site because of their decision >to appreciate me.

*** I reserve my right to say or do anything I 
chose to, which does not violate its ethos or 
mission, including criticizing your supporters.

However if you make the request with underlying 
but persuasive reasons why I should not do that, 
I will give it at least an ordinary amount of 
consideration if for nothing else than out of 
ordinary courtesy.

>You are a sponsorer of the site and not the 
>people subscribed to the mailing list.

*** Yes, I am indeed a sponsor. These things 
require money to maintain. Somebody has to pay 
for it. And since I think it is a worthwhile 
effort, and I do not think of it as an 
entitlement to be not only a beneficiary of its 
services, but also expect to be served on a 
silver platter with  the kinds of discussions of 
my desires;  I participate, like a responsible 
citizen ought to--both to share its cost and to 
help make it a vibrant forum.

However I cannot understand what you mean by 
"---not the people subscribed to the mailing 
list."

>You are being way too inconsiderate in using the 
>words against those who refuse >to agree to you 
>Sir.

*** You are entirely entitled to your opinion, but I beg to differ.

>  >Even every noble thought is criticized, yours 
>is still too vague to demand >any consideration.

*** Huh? That one flew right over my head.

Finally, my apologies if I sent unwanted messages 
to your mailbox. It must have been a result of 
pressing the reply-to-all button, and your 
address must have been on the recipient list. I 
will make a note  of that and try to prevent that 
from happening in the future. But it will be 
helpful if you instruct your correspondents also 
not to send anything to my mailbox with your 
address on it. Would that be fair?

Best to you.

cm

At 5:24 PM +0100 10/15/06, Momy Saikia wrote:
>Could the administrator of the site make sure 
>that I donot receive further mails from people 
>registered on this site as I have already 
>unsubscribed. BelowI have taken time to reply to 
>a Lady who couldn't refrain herself from 
>criticizing me!!!!!!!!!!!
>
>Message for Mr Chan- please stop accusing and 
>abusing members of this site because of their 
>decision to appreciate me. You are a sponsorer 
>of the site and not the people subscribed to the 
>mailing list. You are being way too 
>inconsiderate in using the words against those 
>who refuse to agree to you Sir. Even every noble 
>thought is criticized, yours is still too vague 
>to demand any consideration.
>
>
>Hello Mrs Sarangapani,
>
>First- I am surprised to receive your mail 
>because when my mails were constructive, 
>proposing some actions, there were no mails of 
>appreciation from yourself or your likes.  WHY 
>COULDN'T YOU RAISE YUOR VOICE THAN OR YOU JUST 
>ENJOY THE CRITICIZING AND DEBATING PART OF EVERY 
>DISCUSSION LADY!!!!
>
>I could guess from your mail that you are from 
>the older section of the society and hence so 
>defensive about them. Respect is a broader term 
>than most of us can understand. Your perception 
>of a word is not acceptable globally. Besides, 
>showing a mirror, be it to my elders isn't an 
>insult to them, and if you took offence out of 
>it, its your perception and I have nothing to 
>say.
>
>Please do not spam my mailbox with your 
>perceptions and opinions. Respect should be 
>commanded and not demanded. And for your 
>information, I could respect a 5 year old child 
>prodigy and totally undermine a 50 year old 
>criminal. So, I do not understand the word the 
>way others do.
>
>And about you and your children being 
>successful...its a good news for your family but 
>as for me you don't need to convince me cause I 
>simply don't care. 9 out of 10 in this world who 
>have all the privileges are successful in life, 
>so no big deal....If you or your children were 
>extraordinary people, than I would love to be 
>inspired.
>
>Which part of my mail was disrespectful lady? 
>Dont you please force your perceptions on me. 
>There wasnt a sentence meaning disrespect for 
>the older generation, it was only a wake up call 
>to the inactive and the empty vessels making 
>most of the noise in the forum. If 
>coincidently, they happen to be all older folks, 
>not my mistake. Speaking the truth isnt 
>insulting someone.
>
>Why should we, the younger generation confine 
>ourselves to our peers of same age when we are 
>living in the society created by the older ones. 
>I will confront (young or old) everyone 
>irrespective of the fact that some might 
>misconstrue my words. I am doing no harm but 
>wanting to help.
>
>About being respectful to elders, I have more 
>older and successful friends than those of my 
>age. Try to be radical not emotional Lady!!!.
>
>HOWEVER, I SINCERELY APOLOGISE IF YOU FELT 
>INSULTED BY ANY OF MY WORDS IN THIS OR THE 
>PREVIOUS MAILS. I DIDNOT WRITE THEM WITH YOU IN 
>MIND, SO IT COULDN'T HAVE IMPLIED ANYTHING ON 
>YOU, UNLESS YOU RELATE YOURSELF TO SOME BITS OF 
>IT.
>
>Kind regards
>Momy
>
>NB: I have unsubscribed from Assam net and I do 
>not expect any mails from any of the members 
>apart from those few I have mailed personally.
>
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