[Assam] Unsubscribed!!!stop the influx

Mon Oct 16 06:17:24 PDT 2006

Very well said Alpana.

Incidentally, that whine about 'unwanted-e-mails' 
in her mail-box is exactly what we would call an 
attempt at 'urohor-khong-bhoga-dhaarit-xaara', 
Unfortunately Momy won't be able to understand 
what it means :-).

At 2:31 AM -0500 10/16/06, Alpana B. Sarangapani wrote:
>So! you wanted to say the last word, and then 
>unsubscribe (not that I would care!) and hide 
>and then make demands that people not criticize 
>you?
>
>First off, you need to stop this spamming (that 
>you are whining about) yourself. If you are so 
>concerned, why did you think it was necessary to 
>send me personal emails? When you bring up 
>matters up in a public forum, expect criticism 
>and support.
>
>BTW, screaming on the net with all caps on, is just passe`.
>
>  >First- I am surprised to receive your mail because when my mails
>>were constructive, proposing some actions, there were no mails of
>>appreciation from yourself or your likes. WHY COULDN'T YOU RAISE
>
>Why should I? Don't you get it? Usually braggers 
>are ignored so that the feelings are not 
>hurt. Apparently some don't catch the drift. You 
>are demanding that people reply to all your 
>mails, and that too, supporting you!
>
>It also looks like you don't know how the net 
>works. Let me help you, Graduate Engineer, you 
>unsubscribe electronically, that's it. The 
>administrators do not "dictate" the members' 
>posts just like they did not dictate yours. I 
>won't whine to the net admin that you are 
>spamming my mail-box 'cause I know they have no 
>say in the matter.
>
>On other matters, as Mukul-da reminded from your 
>previous bragging on this net, you haven't even 
>"lived" in Assam, then all of a sudden you try 
>to become a savior of Assam, and when people did 
>not overtly give you support, you go haywire.
>
>You assumed that yours was the pioneering 
>effort in helping Assam. Still! you were going 
>to help, fine, though it was for the privileged 
>few. How many people in Assam do you think have 
>computers? Then, you expected that everybody 
>drop everything that they were doing, then go 
>ga-ga over some brainwave that you came up with. 
>Have you heard of the perenial floods or of the 
>myraids of other problems in Assam? Oh! excuse 
>me, you wouldn't, you haven't lived in Assam! 
>
>  >Why should we, the younger generation confine ourselves to our peers
>>of same age when we are living in the society created by the older
>>ones. I will confront (young or old) everyone irrespective of the
>>fact that some might misconstrue my words. I am doing no harm but
>>wanting to help.
>
>Exactly our point. Let people think and opine 
>freely whether they want to lend you support or 
>not? Have you any clue that without lambasting 
>on this net, there are netters who have been 
>continually helping people in Assam in many 
>areas, primary education, for example? In case 
>you did not know! many are fighting for 
>survival. There are very few who get up in the 
>morning and dream about coming to the UK or USA 
>for some foreign education.
>
>But like I said, you can go with any idea and 
>still help. But don't expect everyone to jump up 
>and down just because you started some project. 
>Had you kept your patience, people would have 
>mulled over it and over time you would have got 
>a good amount of support.
>
>  >coincidently, they happen to be all older folks, not my mistake.
>>Speaking the truth isnt insulting someone.
>
>Really! what was that truth? That you didn't 
>hear from each and everyone of us?
>
>  >for the older generation, it was only a wake up call to the inactive
>
>What wake up call? You are the first one to 
>think about Assam and that too for a handful of 
>privileged ones who are trying to go overseas?
>
>  >And about you and your children being successful...its a good news
>>for your family but as for me you don't need to 
>>convince me cause I >simply don't care.
>
>Exactly! the same applies to us. Apparently, you 
>still didn't get it. I was talking about the 
>NRIs in general, not about myself. What I wanted 
>to convey was that not just graduate engineers, 
>but young NRI (that grew up here) have been 
>doing wonderful things. Just because someone is 
>in America, it does not mean that they are all 
>privileged. Each of those successful kids have 
>worked hard and have accomplished and sacrificed 
>what you can't even imagine - as we can read 
>from your mails.
>
>  >Respect should be commanded and not demanded. And for your
>
>You mean earned? Remember, this is a free 
>country, you can't command us to support you 
>just because you said so.
>
>I wasted enough time with you. My connection 
>with you was only thru this net, and if you are 
>not a member of this net, don't write to me to 
>my personal emails. You wrote to me in a PUBLIC 
>FORUM and I wrote back to you in the same FORUM. 
>If you wish, write thru this net - in public.
>
>
>From: "Momy Saikia" <saikia_m at hotmail.com>
>To: absarangapani at hotmail.com, cmahanta at charter.net
>CC: bgogoi at gmail.com, assam at assamnet.org
>Subject: Unsubscribed!!!stop the influx
>Date: Sun, 15 Oct 2006 17:24:41 +0100
>>Could the administrator of the site make sure that I donot receive
>>further mails from people registered on this site as I have already
>>unsubscribed. BelowI have taken time to reply to a Lady who couldn't
>>refrain herself from criticizing me!!!!!!!!!!!
>>
>>Message for Mr Chan- please stop accusing and abusing members of
>>this site because of their decision to appreciate me. You are a
>>sponsorer of the site and not the people subscribed to the mailing
>>list. You are being way too inconsiderate in using the words against
>>those who refuse to agree to you Sir. Even every noble thought is
>>criticized, yours is still too vague to demand any consideration.
>>
>>
>>Hello Mrs Sarangapani,
>>
>>First- I am surprised to receive your mail because when my mails
>>were constructive, proposing some actions, there were no mails of
>>appreciation from yourself or your likes. WHY COULDN'T YOU RAISE
>>YUOR VOICE THAN OR YOU JUST ENJOY THE CRITICIZING AND DEBATING PART
>>OF EVERY DISCUSSION LADY!!!!
>>
>>I could guess from your mail that you are from the older section of
>>the society and hence so defensive about them. Respect is a broader
>>term than most of us can understand. Your perception of a word is
>>not acceptable globally. Besides, showing a mirror, be it to my
>>elders isn't an insult to them, and if you took offence out of it,
>>its your perception and I have nothing to say.
>>
>>Please do not spam my mailbox with your perceptions and opinions.
>>Respect should be commanded and not demanded. And for your
>>information, I could respect a 5 year old child prodigy and totally
>>undermine a 50 year old criminal. So, I do not understand the word
>>the way others do.
>>
>>And about you and your children being successful...its a good news
>>for your family but as for me you don't need to convince me cause I
>>simply don't care. 9 out of 10 in this world who have all the
>>privileges are successful in life, so no big deal....If you or your
>>children were extraordinary people, than I would love to be
>>inspired.
>>
>>Which part of my mail was disrespectful lady? Dont you please force
>>your perceptions on me. There wasnt a sentence meaning disrespect
>>for the older generation, it was only a wake up call to the inactive
>>and the empty vessels making most of the noise in the forum. If
>>coincidently, they happen to be all older folks, not my mistake.
>>Speaking the truth isnt insulting someone.
>>
>>Why should we, the younger generation confine ourselves to our peers
>>of same age when we are living in the society created by the older
>>ones. I will confront (young or old) everyone irrespective of the
>>fact that some might misconstrue my words. I am doing no harm but
>>wanting to help.
>>
>>About being respectful to elders, I have more older and successful
>>friends than those of my age. Try to be radical not emotional
>>Lady!!!.
>>
>>HOWEVER, I SINCERELY APOLOGISE IF YOU FELT INSULTED BY ANY OF MY
>>WORDS IN THIS OR THE PREVIOUS MAILS. I DIDNOT WRITE THEM WITH YOU IN
>>MIND, SO IT COULDN'T HAVE IMPLIED ANYTHING ON YOU, UNLESS YOU RELATE
>>YOURSELF TO SOME BITS OF IT.
>>
>>Kind regards
>>Momy
>>
>>NB: I have unsubscribed from Assam net and I do not expect any mails
>>from any of the members apart from those few I have mailed
>>personally.
>>
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